Who is responsible to increase your negative thinking? Other people and situation. No brother, we are responsible to increase our negative thinking and feel sufferings and disorder our harmons and capture in diseases. So, learn from this concept more detail and free from our negative thinking.
1. Negative thinking is the root of our suffering
Only negative thinking is the root of our suffering. Understand it.
Other person has abused it because you did not fulfill his desire. Now, you have to choices. One you can think positive regarding this person and second you can think negative
Now, what will happen if you will start thinking positive on this event.
1. You are thinking, "I did not do this mistake and still, he is abusing me, it means, he has ignorance. He does not know what he is doing. So, I feel pity for him and I forgave to him for his mistakes.
What comes with this positive thinking
Forgive emotions
What its impact
You forgive and you forget and enjoy your life.
You are thinking, "I did mistake and gave pain and he is realizing his pain through abusing. So, I need to get forgive from him. Please pardon me.
Who comes
accepted own mistake and improve yourself.
Now if you think negative
1. You are thinking, "I did not do this mistake and still, he is abusing me, It means, he is not good person. I need to revenge from him. I can take revenge with two ways. I can abuse double. I can physically harm same person.
What comes with this negative thinking
hate and anger emotions
What its impact?
You hate and you feel anger and your blood is burning and you are suffering more and more physically and mentally.
You are thinking, "I did mistake and gave pain and he is realizing his pain through abusing. But, I have power and money. He is very small person. He has to tolerate this pain. By abusing me he did big mistake. I will take the revenge. I will show him his level. I will break his leg.
So, I need to make gang and punish him
Who comes
Ego. Instead accepting mistakes, his ego converted into hate and anger and when this thinking film end, same person only get physically and mental suffering.
2. Feeling is the product of your thinking
What you feel is good or bad depends on what you think good or bad. If you are thinking bad, it means, you will feel bad. If you are thinking good, you will feel good. If you want to feel good, you have to change only thinking. You have to come from bad thinking to good thinking. Your thinking shapes your feeling
You have to think gratitude, love, forgiveness, pardon, peace, patience tolerance and bravery. With this, you feel loveful, grateful, humble and happy and brave.
3. Happiness comes when you stop to think negative.
Yes, it is true. because our own negative thinking is the enemy of our happiness. Happiness is fish which can only live in the sea of positive thinking. It can die and become dead body if we take the water of positive thinking and make desert with our own negative thinking.
Our negative thinking has big network and powerful to kill our happiness.
You think lustful. You are upset with this. You are thinking anger. Anger connects with lust. Both make you blind from brain and Ego connects with your lust and anger. Now your personality is
Angry person, lustful person and a person having ego. Now, fear, greed and laziness also comes and all will kill your happiness.
Now stop your negative thinking. You need not enhance it. Its power will stop and your will bring positive thinking for re-alive your happiness.
4. Reaction on the people and situation can hurts me
You react, it means, you are thinking negative from long time. People and situation are same if you will remove your all negative thinking with one breath exhale, your reaction will stop and people and situation will stop you hurt.
5. No need to control others
Only God enough to control all. We are not god. With our negative thinking of fear and greed, we try to control others but no one like to slave in the life like animals. So, we just have to overcome our fear and greed, and think positive, God is controlling on my behalf and other will do positive what I want. It is enough. Magic is come and your positivity attract them.
6. Real measure of happiness is not what we have, it is how we feel from Inside.
When you have more and more things physically. You only get stress where we have to store it and what will happen if someone steal it or you will sell it when you need money and it will increase your negative thinking automatically and happiness will go far from you.
If you really want to happy, you need to feel good from inside. Only positive thinking can feel good.
For example, you do not have the car. You feel bad because you think jealousy, other have but you do not have. Now, this bad feeling inside make you unhappy. Now you just start to think positive
1. Yes, I accept, I do not have the car but I can feel, I am and my family inside the car when I travel public vehicle like train or bus or tempu. I feel good and I am happy.
2. Yes, I accept, I do not have the car because I do not have enough money to buy the car. Yes, If I save money and learn to earn more, I can buy the car. Other have car, it means, they bought it. It means, they earned more than me. For this, they did more work hard. I can learn from their hard work and grow my earning. I inspired all of them. Still, I am feeling motivation and inspiration from all rich people.
3. Yes, I accept, I do not have the car. Without car, I still happy because I have two foot and I can walk, Car can be bought from money but I have two healthy foot which I can travel like car which no one can buy from money. God has given this great free gift. I am busy to enjoy this great gift. I have no time what other have and who I do not have. I am busy in thankful what I have which can not buy from money and same impact if other have anything.
(A) Car has AC. yes it is true but it is also true when I walk on foot in garden and I got real ac from trees. So, I feel good.
(B) Car has luxury seats. Yes it is true but when I tired from long walking in garden and sleep in any tree, I feel more comfort in tree cool air which is superior than Car
(C) Car help you to travel in emergency of health to hospital. Yes it is true but it is also true, if I walk foot long in the garden, I need not travel in emergency of health to hospital. I will be healthy upto my natural death.
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